退休后老同学聚会,不碰这三个话题:房子、孩子、退休金首发2023-10-13 10:25·科尔沁阿姨退休后的人闲着没事了,爱张罗事的同学总喜欢召集同学聚会,什么大学同学会、高中同学会、初中同学会,甚至几十年不见的小学同学也聚会,这也算正常,本无可厚非,我也参加过几次聚会,有大规模的,也有同城小规模的。通过参加同学聚会,我发现一个现象,同学聚会中经常提的话题是:房子、孩子、退休金,同学会变味了,同学会变成了攀比会。我就复盘一下我参加的一次高中同学会的情景吧。这是一次较大规模的高中同学聚会,全班46个人,来了32个人,坐了三桌。我就坐的这个桌上,有男有女,有在副厅级局长位置上退休的,有央企工会主席位置上退休的,有重点高中副校长退休的,有医院高护护士长退休的,有国企改制后下岗自谋职业的,也有当年没考上大中专院校顶替父亲接班在公司退休的……高中同学嘛,自从毕业那天起,都走上了不同的路,开启了不同的人生。刚开始气氛非常融洽,大家都很兴奋,共同追忆同窗时的美好时光,倜侃在学校时发生的一些糗事,在欢声笑语中,大家仿佛回到了青年时代。边喝边聊,各自谈毕业后30多年的历程,有得意的、有惆怅的、有遗憾的……心情很复杂。酒过三巡,有点乱,进入无序自由状态,畅所欲言,想聊啥聊啥了。一、聊房子。我家是复式,上下三层,独门独院,有车库;我家170平的大平层,宽敞明亮,央企大开的房子,小区高档;我在海南有户房子,冬天到那里度假,开春时再回来;我最近把房子置换了,换了一套河景房,这房子太贵了,耗去了我几百万大洋……哇塞,都是富豪呀。二、聊孩子。我儿子在市政府上班,一天可忙了,总陪领导下去检查,还要写材料;我女儿是大学副教授,工资收入不错,女婿是教授;我儿子是央企高管,班子副职;我儿子是公立医院大夫,现在不是博士,公立三甲都进不去……这时,我看见在央企当工会主席的女同学,脸色不太好看,我们俩是一个公司的,她事业很成功,做到了副处级,但孩子有点毛病,好像自闭症。三、聊退休金。不知谁提起这个话题,大家兴致勃勃,争论不休,有对政策是大明白的,有说退休金不公平的,那个副厅级局长同学说他退休金一万六,大家羡慕不已,真是没有白努力,辛苦一生,终有回报了。高护护士长女同学退休金8000天,在女同学中也算高的了,重点高中副校长男同学,退休金10000多,那个央企工会主席女同学阴郁的脸也绽开了笑容,她说退休金7000多……我看,就有两个人没有说自己退休金多少,一个就是在国企下岗自谋职业那个同学,另一个就是考学落榜接替父亲到公司当工人那个同学。这次同学聚会,历时两天时间,张罗的同学很有组织能力,去了两个景点,吃了几顿饭,最长的一次饭局从中午一直到晚上结束,同学们畅所欲言,该聊的、不该聊的话题都聊到了。通过这次聚会,我感觉到,虽然是同学,但也不能啥都聊,高中毕业三十多年过去了,有的同学连一次面都没见过,彼此之间都变得生疏了,况且,三十多年大家都经历了什么,谁也不了解,不知哪句话说到谁的痛点上。你像房子、孩子、退休金这些都是敏感的话题,人生走的路不同,经济条件不同,房子有大有小,孩子有出息有发展一般的,退休金有高有低,好的炫耀,不好的自卑。结论退休后老同学聚会,不要碰这三个话题:房子、孩子、退休金,否则,同学会就变成了攀比会。
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